i am looking through google but there are so many,any ideas?

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http://www.okcupid.com/

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if its Free they don't need a credit card....there are loads out there like www.freedating.com. keep looking and don't pay as some multi sites are owned by the same group and show profiles of people from all sites that you can not contact as you are not a member...just to make the site look bigger than it is.....like...Girls date for free....dating for parents...ect....as its a big con......